I wonder how many of you have felt injustice when your boss or your supervisor has treated you, in your opinion, in a way that you don’t deserve? It is easy to get annoyed isn’t it, perhaps you get angry? Well this week I’ve got a very bizarre but actually, based on psychology, quite a practical way of overcoming that frustration.
The insight in question comes from psychologists collaborating from the US and Canada and it resulted in clear advice – you should engage in something called ‘symbolic retaliation’. What that means is instead of going up to your boss and being angry and frustrated and having it out with them or the person concerned, instead you create of take something that represents that person and take your anger out on that object instead. Now in the research paper they talk about sticking pins into voodoo dolls actually they also say that the benefits are as good if you stick a picture of your boss on a dartboard and throw darts at it!
I know this sound a bit unscientific but it is backed up by mainstream research and if it can overcome annoyance, frustration, anger and conflict in the workplace then surely it has to be worth a try.
Please don’t forget to share this week’s insight and I’ll be back in a week’s time with some more meetology® – exploring the fascinating psychology powering exceptional people skills.
See you next week, until then take care,
The Meetology® Lab
Liang, Lindie H., et al. “Righting a wrong: Retaliation on a voodoo doll symbolizing an abusive supervisor restores justice.” The Leadership Quarterly (2018).